Kelly Cave LPC, LMFT, CPCS, SEP

Trauma is not what happens to us, but what we hold inside in the absence of an empathetic witness. -Dr. Peter Levine

I am a Christian sex therapist who specializes in walking alongside couples and individuals as they navigate the most intimate and often most painful parts of their stories. My work with couples focuses on sexual issues, affair recovery, and betrayal trauma. Whether you are rebuilding trust after infidelity, struggling with intimacy, or feeling disconnected in your marriage, I provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space for you to heal and grow together.

In addition to couples, I also work with individuals in their 20s and beyond. Much of this work incorporates Somatic Experiencing® (SE)—a body-based approach to healing trauma. SE helps us understand how trauma is stored in the nervous system, not just the mind. When we experience overwhelming events, our bodies can get stuck in survival responses such as fight, flight, or freeze. This “stuck” energy can show up in repetitive behaviors, anxiety, difficulty regulating emotions, or even feeling shut down or disconnected from yourself and others.

Through gentle, guided awareness of physical sensations, Somatic Experiencing helps release this trapped survival energy and restore balance to the nervous system. Instead of feeling controlled by past trauma or old patterns, you can begin to feel safer in your body, more present in your relationships, and freer to make choices that align with who you are today.

I also incorporate Somatic Experiencing touch work as part of the healing process for those who request it. This is a gentle, non-invasive approach that focuses on supporting the nervous system through safe, respectful, therapeutic touch. Touch work provides a way to help the body regulate stress responses, release stored tension, and experience a greater sense of safety and grounding. Many clients find that touch work allows them to access deeper layers of healing, fostering calm, resilience, and a renewed connection with themselves.

My goal is to walk alongside you using evidence-based therapy and the wisdom of the body to support healing and growth in every area of life. Whether you are a couple seeking restoration or an individual longing to feel whole again, I would be honored to partner with you on your journey.